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15-01-2021 08:33 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
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15-01-2021 08:35 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Ohhh @Former-Member
The first cleaning job we had , a house minder was there this week while the owners are away and she was drinking wine at 8 am
She kept talking to me which was ok as i supported her while we were there
When we got to the second cleaning job Mr shaz was a totally mess
He said that the morning had put him down
Ohh I nearly had to do everything
After that we went to mow a lawn which we have not been able to mow since Christmas time
The customer was soo happy
But Mr shaz felt she was not
Then Mr shaz brought some beer home
My mum was upset and angry about her day
I brought roast chicken and salad for dinner which was good
Mum only had custard for dinner
We were suppose to be mowing tomorrow but the customer has cancelled
Mr shaz is feeling very low all day
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15-01-2021 08:37 PM - edited 15-01-2021 08:38 PM
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15-01-2021 08:41 PM
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Oh dear @Shaz51 So much on your shoulders from all angles today Hon. I do hope you can put your feet up tonight and Mr Shaz and your Mum are a little better tomorrow. You hold everyone together my sister but make sure you look after yourself too. Hugs and hugs and hugs and hugs
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15-01-2021 08:42 PM
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I'm so sorry @Shaz51 you guys are under so so much pressure with yuour house, sounds like the stress is just too much for Mr shaz. With the cencelation maybe you and Mr shaz could have a day to just chill together
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15-01-2021 08:45 PM
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15-01-2021 08:51 PM
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Re: Not sure what to do !!!
Yikes @Shaz51 , hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
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15-01-2021 08:57 PM
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15-01-2021 09:04 PM
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Mr shaz sounds very anxious, might be worth getting him to speak with a professional @Shaz51 you will burn out too, please take time to look after yourself, you look after Mr shaz amd your mum so well, but it must be at an emotional and mental cost to you, please do something nice for yourself tomorrow
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15-01-2021 09:08 PM
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Time for a cuppa on the deck maybe @Shaz51