Why is there so much pressure on days

[Judymay]

So over days having meaning when you are alone and you can't hold a normal day so add an occasion and we are next level struggling. 

I want to ignore it and hope maybe if it doesn't notice me I'll get through untouched and no fate given for the new year. The other half ones to sage my room and burn everything that I lost this year and even still this week reminding me it's taking everything. I don't know I guess I'll wake up and see either way I am I sure if we get to

dictate it anyway.

all I know is I am accepting closure or understanding dor basically everything this year has not been given so yay that's reallly fun to let go. 

[Gremlin24]

@Judymay life is hard enough to get through sometime without the added pressure of specific days. Unfortunately when we are alone those days seem to remind us just what we are missing out on. 

Sending you lots of strength to keep pushing through, you've got this. Let's hope the new year is better for all of us. 

[MJG017]

@Judymay 

I know the only way i've gotten through the past year or two is to learn to not focus too much on things I can't control.  Things are going to be hard enough without adding more onto the pile.  So I've learnt to try and kind of... I don't know... "let go" of stuff I just can't control or change.  It hasn't really solved anything or transformed my life at all, but just allowed me to survive just a bit easier and get through each day.  So if you can manage to do this, well done!  It seemed like such a small thing before but now, it feels like such a massive achievement because I know now that it is.  For me, part of it is realizing that certain things in life are finite, so appreciate what I have while i have it.  Like I said, it just helps me get through each day.