Hi @iswimrivers welcome to the forums 😊
Sounds like a pretty heavy situation, and I can understand it is taking its toll on you and your family. First and foremost, if it gets to a crisis point where you feel your partner's life is in immediate danger, please call 000.
You can also seek 24/7 support from any of the following crisis services:
Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Crisis Chat
Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or online counselling
Samaritans: 135 247
For non-crisis support you can both feel free to get in touch with SANE's Support Services - open 10am-10pm weekdays.
Depending on your eligibility, he may also be able to register for SANE's Guided Service. Free ongoing telehealth counselling and peer support - check eligibility here.
You can also use a database search - you can narrow by location/issue, it's a great way to find support that matches your needs.
Another organisation that might be worth checking out is Relationships Australia - they have information and resources for all kinds of relationships, and may be a good source of support.
Jealousy is a tricky one, and often is a result of a deeper emotional wound - fear of losing someone, fear of rejection, feelings of not being worthy are just a few examples. It can be incredibly difficult, and you're not alone in struggling with these issues. I found this article online which goes into some of the mechanisms and nature of jealousy, could be a helpful read.
Good on you for reaching out in this space, I hope you find what you're looking for 💜
