Ugh. I don't wanna go out.

[Former-Member]

hehe, well I hope your night intogether is lovely! You  need a nice night after the stresses of the day i think! Sounds like there were lots of disappointments today with the chiken coop. is there any other possibilities of fixing things up? or even of getting an old rabbit hutch for just a couple?

hope things are better tomorrow too,

take care,

LJ

[chookmojo]

@Former-Member

Thanks. I was super chuffed to stay home, though sleeping all day and a dose of caffiene at 7pm to help me stay up late achieved exactly that. I was up half the night! Hubs went straight back to bed which is good because he has been knackered. I woke up this morning with a really sore throat and stuffy head so I have come down with the dreaded lurgy; it may be that he is coming down with it too.

There are Definitely other options regarding the chooks. I just got fixated on my "perfect" solution and chucked a wobbly. Sometimes I come up with ideas that just tick all of my boxes and I know if I do it this way I won't have any anxiety at all, then I get properly stroppy if I have to compromise away from it. I have since come up with a less satisfactory but tolerable back up plan, but it is going to take a lot more work and expense to do properly and wouldn't happen for a couple of years. In the meantime I could go back to doing what worked for three years and failed once and just deal with the anxiety.

I am back to being undecided about getting more chooks at least this year, and will probably change my mind a lot before the matter is settled!

[Former-Member]

I'm glad to hear that you have a back up plan 🙂 I love how honest you are about yourself. You have such a good insight into how you go about things that it probably lets you get over the stress of things a bit quicker. I had a bit of a catastrophe last night, was checking on my lil girl before i went to bed, and stepped back to go out of her room and stood on the baby rabbit that i'd left out and forgotten I hadnt put him to bed yet. he raced off and took me forever to find him (under the tv cabinet). And he was so quiet and still i was sure i'd killed him. sat up with him all night, and then this morning hes come much more alert and what not.. so im keeping everything crossed that he's going to be ok! my lil girl would eb devastated. But im too scared to let him out of his indoor hutch! eek!

LJ

[Appleblossom]

Oh @Former-Member that really brought me back to my small kids and small animals underfoot period.

I started to have a shoes off in the house style cos of incidents like that.

[PeppiPatty]

really like reading your comaderie.

Great messages.....

I must look that book up @Jacques

I have something to announce.....this is the first message on my computer....

Im almost looking normal and proffecional

[PeppiPatty]

Dearest @chookmojo

Firstly thank you for not being grouchy for addressing @Former-Member on your thread.
It feels like to me your defining and strengthening your own supports by inviting your husband in to see your GP.
I must comment that that's strong of you.
I mean gutsy.

I am only
Commenting that because I'm also married even though he's my ex I spend
More time with him because we needed to split to trust each other more.
And I'm constantly questioning whether I'm not messing him around ...... not just realising .. This is really cool I'm just jumping in but .. I'm still feeling very insecure.
But it feels like your more in control than I am.
Anne

[Former-Member]

My nic name is mentioned???? my PC has been down due to the flooding in Nowra NSW where I live. I have been so unwell with serious flu virus, plus anxiety attacks daily from overload of pain & sickness. 

I hope I have not caused any problem for anyone, I've been off line for 2 weeks I think?

(((((((hugs 4 all))))))

Bella!      🙂

[chookmojo]

@Former-Member

No, no mate, not at all! You haven't done anything in the slightest wrong and I am absolutely not upset with anyone, least of all you!

Sorry to hear you have been crook, I have been down with the flu too. It sucks! Trying to decide if I am up for work tomorrow or not, have been off all week!

[PeppiPatty]

dear @Former-Member

 you've done nothing wrong.......cuddle up in bed :0)

I was aware that I've raved on about my own stuff forgetting that this is @Chookmojo s thread.....

Please write ! 

[Former-Member]

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!
I felt sick then, I'm so happy both of you are here right now! XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX