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You too @Shaz51 . Go easy on yourself with your mum's stuff.

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Yes @Dimity , feeling Mr shaz is pushing too hard and just throwing her things in the bin 

@Jynx , @PizzaMondo 

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@Shaz51 with my late parents' stuff I had to take it slowly... maybe too slowly as I still haven't finished. It takes time to process all the feelings.

@NatureLover @scruffypuffball 

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@Shaz51 I echo @Dimity on this one - maybe reaffirm that everyone's grieving process is different, and you need to be able to take things more slowly? 

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Very true @Jynx , @Dimity 

I will not look or touch so he will forget wanting to to

Downsize and throw things out 

Been crying so much because of it all 

 

My sleep test has been move to June now 

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Maybe a good thing re: your sleep test @Shaz51 - I imagine it would not necessarily give accurate results right now since you're neck deep in the grief process. 

 

Hope you're able to affirm those boundaries and can approach the task in the way that best suits your emotional processing 🤞💜

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Oh hugs @Shaz51 sitting with you. 

Mrshaz might be distracted by his tests this week, more than enough to cope with. 

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@Shaz51 

 

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Yes I agree with the sleep test being put forward is a good idea @Jynx 

@PeppyPatti , @Dimity xx 

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Haha @Dimity ! With the Four Horsemen of Procrastination, I do snacks, social media and minor chores - especially the minor chores!