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06-11-2018 06:19 PM
06-11-2018 06:19 PM
@Former-Member Hope I have not upset you.
It is always hard going deeper into situations.
I get your family was isolated and had nobody else to turn to.
06-11-2018 10:14 PM
06-11-2018 10:14 PM
07-11-2018 02:59 PM
07-11-2018 02:59 PM
Glad you played checkers with your dad.
@Former-Member
Not waiting, but concerned.
Keep your options open and a direction will become clear to you, whether it is do with a place or a person or a cause.
It would be nice if family dynamics improved, but you cant wait for them for ever.
10-11-2018 07:48 PM
10-11-2018 07:48 PM
Help, I just politely closed down a conversation with my son because he tells me he rang my toxic sister for her birthday this week, after all she’s done against me, including poisoning her two sons+ against me... I don’t know what to do, too depressed, i’’m proud he’s not like her boys but with her being so destructive & vindictive, attacks on me, my character, ignoring all my attempts to recognise, ignoring my birthday, fainting up with with Bro2 at Public guardian against me... I don’t know, has she stolen my son too? Why am I so upset... why can’t he call me more often. Why did he call her so soon after the guardianship trauma. I don’t want to cut of my son, but part of me does, everyone hates me. What has she ever done for him ? This is driving me crazy. I need help, just wanna cut off from everyone... my son doesn’t care how much he hurts me over and over, so disrespectful. I don’t know, what’s wrong with me. I’m gonna do it, it’s what they all want. Well sobbing here, so so sad. Please give me a healthy way to see all this, someone help
@Faith-and-Hope @Appleblossom @silhouette @ ya can’t think of anyone else not sick of me 😞
10-11-2018 08:04 PM - edited 10-11-2018 09:12 PM
10-11-2018 08:04 PM - edited 10-11-2018 09:12 PM
even you guys here slowly leaving me, am I this horrible? what did I do to you all? I must be scum of the earth but I haven’t set out to hurt anyone. My so called ‘loved ones’ WANT me to suicide. When I said “I have to go” (hang up) my son is so detached, he just says “fine, if that’s what you want” he don’t give a damn, oh how my sis must gloat that he speaks to her when she ignores me, and her sons. I don’t believe I’m as delusional as she’s telling everyone. It’s not fair. @Owlunar, does your toxic sisters kids ignore you? Does she tell everyone you’re emotionally unstable, delusional, “not dead yet”. I have nobody!
10-11-2018 08:05 PM
10-11-2018 08:05 PM
I need a drink, but it inc SI
i don’t know what to do
10-11-2018 08:11 PM - edited 10-11-2018 09:16 PM
10-11-2018 08:11 PM - edited 10-11-2018 09:16 PM
10-11-2018 08:18 PM
10-11-2018 08:18 PM
10-11-2018 08:22 PM
10-11-2018 08:22 PM
Ohh @Former-Member
I wish I could reassure you but I well know the way a sister can meddle in relationships with our children. I suffer that TERRIBLY with my daughter.
@Owlunar is offline got family things going on.
Pls do not take slow responses so personally.
I was house cleaning for a few hours, just in shower and had quick visitors as they were dropping off my son from a show.
Wish I could make the fear go away. Your famikly is different to mine and you were probably more available for your son.
My ex and his family really tied me in knots over my affectional ties with both my girls. Now I know it is abuse, your son will probably see your value, but is being a bit slow about it, as it seems to be a sign of the times ....
Sometimes I seem always on forum, but I am not online all the time. I dont use a phone and strongly believe we should not be too digitally dependant.
Take Care @Former-Member
10-11-2018 08:28 PM
10-11-2018 08:28 PM
Dont worry what people think ... so much. @Former-Member of course we do a bit ...otherwise we cannot be socially sensitive, appropriate or be loving ...
It is still healthier to VERBALISE and REACH out
than to do some of the self harming things.
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Supporting and promoting the well-being of mental health carers and their families.
Mental Health Carers Austalia.
Our Mission
To be the voice of mental health carers to enable the best life possible.
Get In Touch With Us
We're here to support and promote the well-being of mental health carers and their families
Mental Health Carers Australia is the only national advocacy group solely concerned with the well-being and promotion of the needs of mental health carers.